I'm Afraid of Men

I'm Afraid of Men
Author: Vivek Shraya
Publsiher: Penguin
Total Pages: 112
Release: 2018-08-28
ISBN 10: 0735235945
ISBN 13: 9780735235946
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


I'm Afraid of Men Book Review:

"Emotional and painful but also layered with humour, I'm Afraid of Men will widen your lens on gender and challenge you to do better. This challenge is a necessary one--one we must all take up. It is a gift to dive into Vivek's heart and mind." --Rupi Kaur, bestselling author of The Sun and Her Flowers and Milk and Honey A trans artist explores how masculinity was imposed on her as a boy and continues to haunt her as a girl--and how we might reimagine gender for the twenty-first century Vivek Shraya has reason to be afraid. Throughout her life she's endured acts of cruelty and aggression for being too feminine as a boy and not feminine enough as a girl. In order to survive childhood, she had to learn to convincingly perform masculinity. As an adult, she makes daily compromises to steel herself against everything from verbal attacks to heartbreak. Now, with raw honesty, Shraya delivers an important record of the cumulative damage caused by misogyny, homophobia, and transphobia, releasing trauma from a body that has always refused to assimilate. I'm Afraid of Men is a journey from camouflage to a riot of colour and a blueprint for how we might cherish all that makes us different and conquer all that makes us afraid.

I'm Afraid of Men

I'm Afraid of Men
Author: Vivek Shraya
Publsiher: Penguin Canada
Total Pages: 96
Release: 2018-08
ISBN 10: 9780735235939
ISBN 13: 0735235937
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


I'm Afraid of Men Book Review:

"A powerful meditation on the damaging effects of masculinity from a trans girl--a writer with celebrated indie roots and a knack for dismantling assumptions and challenging the status quo. Toxic masculinity takes many insidious forms, from misogyny and sexual harassment to homophobia, transphobia, and bullying. Vivek Shraya has firsthand experience with nearly all of them. As a boy, Vivek exhibited "feminine" qualities. The men in her life immediately and violently disapproved. They taught her to fear the word girl by turning it into a weapon used to hurt her. They taught her to hate her femininity, to destroy the best parts of herself. In order to survive, Vivek had to learn to convincingly perform masculinity. As a girl, she's still afraid. Having spent years undoing the damage and salvaging her lost girlhood, she is haunted by the violence of men, seldom dressing the way she wants in public. As a result she is often still perceived as male, stirring feelings of guilt and self-doubt: Am I not feminine enough? Is this my fault for striving to be the perfect man and excelling at it? I'm Afraid of Men is a culmination of the years Vivek spent observing men and creating her own version of manhood. Through deeply personal reflection, she offers a rare and multifaceted perspective on gender and a hopeful reimagining of masculinity at a time when it's needed more than ever."--

I am Not Afraid of the Boogey Man

I am Not Afraid of the Boogey Man
Author: N.A
Publsiher: Xulon Press
Total Pages: 329
Release:
ISBN 10: 161379908X
ISBN 13: 9781613799086
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


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The Boy & the Bindi

The Boy & the Bindi
Author: Vivek Shraya
Publsiher: arsenal pulp press
Total Pages: 32
Release: 2016-09-19
ISBN 10: 1551526697
ISBN 13: 9781551526690
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


The Boy & the Bindi Book Review:

In this beautiful children’s picture book by Vivek Shraya, author of the acclaimed God Loves Hair, a five-year-old South Asian boy becomes fascinated with his mother’s bindi, the red dot commonly worn by Hindu women to indicate the point at which creation begins, and wishes to have one of his own. Rather than chastise her son, she agrees to it, and teaches him about its cultural significance, allowing the boy to discover the magic of the bindi, which in turn gives him permission to be more fully himself. Beautifully illustrated by Rajni Perera, The Boy & the Bindi is a joyful celebration of gender and cultural difference. Ages 3 to 6. Vivek Shraya is a performer, musician, and filmmaker, and the authors of God Loves Hair and She of the Mountains.

The Seven Necessary Sins for Women and Girls

The Seven Necessary Sins for Women and Girls
Author: Mona Eltahawy
Publsiher:
Total Pages: 202
Release: 2019
ISBN 10: 0807013811
ISBN 13: 9780807013816
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


The Seven Necessary Sins for Women and Girls Book Review:

Seizing upon the energy of the #MeToo movement, feminist activist Eltahawy delivers a bold and uncompromising feminist manifesto that shows women and girls how to defy, disrupt, and destroy the patriarchy by embracing the qualities they've been trained to avoid.

Man's Greatest Fear

Man's Greatest Fear
Author: Tim Marshall
Publsiher: Athena Publishing
Total Pages: 186
Release: 1995-01-01
ISBN 10: 9780964575004
ISBN 13: 0964575000
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


Man's Greatest Fear Book Review:

In MAN'S GREATEST FEAR, psychologist Dr. Tim Marshall explores the subconscious fears of man. These fears force man to dominate woman as well as trigger the violent & destructive behavior which fuels his never-ending wars & his relentless, systematic destruction of the environment. Dr. Marshall also analyzes the defense mechanisms operating in the subconscious mind of man which, although they exist to protect him from his subconscious fears, ultimately work to ensure his eventual extinction. Albert Einstein wrote: "Technological progress is like an axe, in the hands of a pathological criminal." Such an understanding of the basic nature of man, coupled with his awesome intelligence & his limited capacity for rational thought, led Einstein to conclude: "We shall require a substantially new manner of thinking if mankind is to survive." Man is not capable of the "new manner of thinking" to which Einstein refers. Under man's leadership, the human race is careening toward its own extinction. As Dr. Marshall explains in his book, the only chance our species has for survival lies in turning man's greatest fear into reality. MAN'S GREATEST FEAR is published by Athena Books, P.O. Box 2282, Gilroy, CA 95021-2282, & sells for $11.00. FAX: 408-842-1019.

Afterland

Afterland
Author: Lauren Beukes
Publsiher: Mulholland Books
Total Pages: 416
Release: 2020-07-28
ISBN 10: 0316267848
ISBN 13: 9780316267847
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


Afterland Book Review:

Children of Men meets The Handmaid's Tale in this "bowstring-taut, visceral, and incredibly timely" thriller about how far a mother will go to protect her son from a hostile world transformed by the absence of men (Cory Doctorow). Most of the men are dead. Three years after the pandemic known as The Manfall, governments still hold and life continues -- but a world run by women isn't always a better place. Twelve-year-old Miles is one of the last boys alive, and his mother, Cole, will protect him at all costs. On the run after a horrific act of violence-and pursued by Cole's own ruthless sister, Billie -- all Cole wants is to raise her kid somewhere he won't be preyed on as a reproductive resource or a sex object or a stand-in son. Someplace like home. To get there, Cole and Miles must journey across a changed America in disguise as mother and daughter. From a military base in Seattle to a luxury bunker, from an anarchist commune in Salt Lake City to a roaming cult that's all too ready to see Miles as the answer to their prayers, the two race to stay ahead at every step . . . even as Billie and her sinister crew draw closer. A sharply feminist, high-stakes thriller from award-winning author Lauren Beukes, Afterland brilliantly blends psychological suspense, American noir, and science fiction into an adventure all its own -- and perfect for our times.

Death Threat

Death Threat
Author: Vivek Shraya
Publsiher: arsenal pulp press
Total Pages: 329
Release: 2019-05-21
ISBN 10: 1551527510
ISBN 13: 9781551527512
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


Death Threat Book Review:

In the fall of 2017, the acclaimed writer and musician Vivek Shraya began receiving vivid and disturbing transphobic hate mail from a stranger. Acclaimed artist Ness Lee brings these letters and Shraya’s responses to them to startling life in Death Threat, a comic book that, by its existence, becomes a compelling act of resistance. Using satire and surrealism, Death Threat is an unflinching portrayal of violent harassment from the perspective of both the perpetrator and the target, illustrating the dangers of online accessibility, and the ease with which vitriolic hatred can be spread digitally.

She of the Mountains

She of the Mountains
Author: Vivek Shraya
Publsiher: Arsenal Pulp Press
Total Pages: 128
Release: 2014-09-22
ISBN 10: 1551525615
ISBN 13: 9781551525617
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


She of the Mountains Book Review:

Finalist, Lambda Literary Award In the beginning, there is no he. There is no she. Two cells make up one cell. This is the mathematics behind creation. One plus one makes one. Life begets life. We are the period to a sentence, the effect to a cause, always belonging to someone. We are never our own. This is why we are so lonely. She of the Mountains is a beautifully rendered illustrated novel by Vivek Shraya, the author of the Lambda Literary Award finalist God Loves Hair. Shraya weaves a passionate, contemporary love story between a man and his body, with a re-imagining of Hindu mythology. Both narratives explore the complexities of embodiment and the damaging effects that policing gender and sexuality can have on the human heart. Illustrations are by Raymond Biesinger, whose work has appeared in such publications as The New Yorker and the New York Times. Vivek Shraya is a multimedia artist, working in the mediums of music, performance, literature, and film. His most recent film, What I LOVE about Being QUEER, has been expanded to include an online project and book with contributions from around the world. He is also author of God Loves Hair.

The End of Men

The End of Men
Author: Hanna Rosin
Publsiher: Penguin
Total Pages: 336
Release: 2012-09-11
ISBN 10: 1101596929
ISBN 13: 9781101596920
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


The End of Men Book Review:

“You have to…play by the rules so you can get to the top and change things.” -- Sheryl Sandberg A landmark portrait of women, men, and power in a transformed world Men have been the dominant sex since, well, the dawn of mankind. But Hanna Rosin was the first to notice that this long-held truth is, astonishingly, no longer true. At this unprecedented moment, by almost every measure, women are no longer gaining on men: They have pulled decisively ahead. And “the end of men”—the title of Rosin’s Atlantic cover story on the subject—has entered the lexicon as dramatically as Betty Friedan’s “feminine mystique,” Simone de Beauvoir’s “second sex,” Susan Faludi’s “backlash,” and Naomi Wolf’s “beauty myth” once did. In this landmark book, Rosin reveals how this new state of affairs is radically shifting the power dynamics between men and women at every level of society, with profound implications for marriage, sex, children, work, and more. With wide-ranging curiosity and insight unhampered by assumptions or ideology, Rosin shows how the radically different ways men and women today earn, learn, spend, couple up—even kill—has turned the big picture upside down. And in The End of Men she helps us see how, regardless of gender, we can adapt to the new reality and channel it for a better future.

The Way of the Superior Man

The Way of the Superior Man
Author: David Deida
Publsiher: ReadHowYouWant.com
Total Pages: 264
Release: 2008-11-24
ISBN 10: 1427086389
ISBN 13: 9781427086389
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


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The Power

The Power
Author: Naomi Alderman
Publsiher: Little, Brown
Total Pages: 416
Release: 2017-10-10
ISBN 10: 0316547654
ISBN 13: 9780316547659
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


The Power Book Review:

What would happen if women suddenly possessed a fierce new power? "The Power is our era's The Handmaid's Tale." --Ron Charles, Washington Post **WINNER OF THE BAILEYS WOMEN'S PRIZE FOR FICTION** One of the New York Times's Ten Best Books of the YearOne of President Obama's favorite reads of the YearA Los Angeles Times Best Book of the Year One of the Washington Post's Ten Best Books of the YearAn NPR Best Book of the Year One of Entertainment Weekly's Ten Best Books of the Year A San Francisco Chronicle Best Book of the YearA Bustle Best Book of the Year A Paste Magazine Best Novel of the YearA New York Times Book Review Editors' ChoiceAn Amazon Best Book of the Year "Alderman's writing is beautiful, and her intelligence seems almost limitless. She also has a pitch-dark sense of humor that she wields perfectly." --Michael Schaub, NPR In THE POWER, the world is a recognizable place: there's a rich Nigerian boy who lounges around the family pool; a foster kid whose religious parents hide their true nature; an ambitious American politician; a tough London girl from a tricky family. But then a vital new force takes root and flourishes, causing their lives to converge with devastating effect. Teenage girls now have immense physical power--they can cause agonizing pain and even death. And, with this small twist of nature, the world drastically resets. From award-winning author Naomi Alderman, THE POWER is speculative fiction at its most ambitious and provocative, at once taking us on a thrilling journey to an alternate reality, and exposing our own world in bold and surprising ways.

The Gift of Fear

The Gift of Fear
Author: Gavin De Becker
Publsiher: Dell Publishing Company
Total Pages: 372
Release: 1999-05
ISBN 10: 9780440508830
ISBN 13: 0440508835
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


The Gift of Fear Book Review:

Explains how to use the power of intuition to identify and avoid danger, and shares advice on restraining orders and self-defense tactics

When I Am Afraid

When I Am Afraid
Author: Edward T. Welch
Publsiher:
Total Pages: 87
Release: 2010-01-01
ISBN 10: 9781935273158
ISBN 13: 1935273159
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


When I Am Afraid Book Review:

"This workbook is a complement to Running scared: fear, worry and the God of rest, but it is not a chapter-by-chapter study guide for that book. It is intended to stand alone as a study guide for individuals and groups."--Author's note.

Even This Page Is White

Even This Page Is White
Author: Vivek Shraya
Publsiher:
Total Pages: 72
Release: 2016-05-01
ISBN 10: 9781551526416
ISBN 13: 1551526417
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


Even This Page Is White Book Review:

A poetry book by the author of "God Loves Hair" a bold and timely interrogation of skin.

Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man

Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man
Author: Steve Harvey
Publsiher: Harper Collins
Total Pages: 240
Release: 2009-10-06
ISBN 10: 9780061964497
ISBN 13: 0061964492
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man Book Review:

“Harvey offers surprising insights into the male mentality and gives women strategies for taming that unruly beast.” —Philadelphia Inquirer “Women should listen to Steve Harvey when it comes to what a good man is about. Steve Harvey dispenses a lot of fabulous information about men.” —Aretha Franklin The #1 New York Times bestseller from the new guru of relationship advice, Steve Harvey’s Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is an invaluable self-help book that can empower women everywhere to take control of their relationships. The host of a top-rated radio show listened to by millions daily—and of cable TV’s The Steve Harvey Project—Harvey knows what men really think about love, intimacy, and commitment. In Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, the author, media personality, and stand-up comedian gets serious, sharing his wealth of knowledge, insight, and no-nonsense advice for every good woman who wants to find a good man or make her current love last.

How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It

How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It
Author: Patricia Love, Ed.D.,Steven Stosny, PH.D
Publsiher: Harmony
Total Pages: 240
Release: 2009-01-21
ISBN 10: 0307496023
ISBN 13: 9780307496027
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It Book Review:

Men are right. The “relationship talk” does not help. Dr. Patricia Love’s and Dr. Steven Stosny’s How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It reveals the stunning truth about marital happiness: Love is not about better communication. It's about connection. You'll never get a closer relationship with your man by talking to him like you talk to one of your girlfriends. Male emotions are like women's sexuality: you can't be too direct too quickly. There are four ways to connect with a man:touch, activity, sex, routines. Men want closer marriages just as much as women do,but not if they has to act like a woman. Talking makes women move closer; it makes men move away. The secret of the silent male is this: his wife supplies the meaning in his life. The stunning truth about love is that talking doesn’t help. Have you ever had this conversation with your spouse? Wife: “Honey, we need to talk about us.” Husband: “Do we have to?” Drs. Patricia Love and Steven Stosny have studied this all-too-familiar dynamic between men and women and have reached a truly shocking conclusion. Even with the best of intentions, talking about your relationship doesn’t bring you together, and it will eventually drive you apart. The reason for this is that underneath most couples’ fights, there is a biological difference at work. A woman’s vulnerability to fear and anxiety makes her draw closer, while a man’s subtle sensitivity to shame makes him pull away in response. This is why so many married couples fall into the archetypal roles of nagging wife/stonewalling husband, and why improving a marriage can’t happen through words. How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It teaches couples how to get closer in ways that don’t require “trying to turn a man into a woman.” Rich in stories of couples who have turned their marriages around, and full of practical advice about the behaviors that make and break marriages, this essential guide will help couples find love beyond words.

I'm Afraid Debbie From Marketing Has Left for the Day

I'm Afraid Debbie From Marketing Has Left for the Day
Author: Morten Münster
Publsiher: Gyldendal Business
Total Pages: 304
Release: 2019-06-12
ISBN 10: 8702275848
ISBN 13: 9788702275841
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


I'm Afraid Debbie From Marketing Has Left for the Day Book Review:

With more than 50,000 copies sold in Denmark, this book has been on the bestseller list since its publication in 2017. Barack Obama used a secret competitive advantage to win two elections. Companies such as Google, Amazon and Novo Nordisk use the same insight to stir up innovation, increase compliance, improve the work environment and sell more products. And successful management groups in the C20 index have started using it as their preferred strategy. But what kind of insight are we talking about here? The answer is – behavioural design. Because people in the real world don’t actually behave like the people we build all our usual strategies for. We are opposing human biology and psychology when we insist that good arguments, burning platforms, classic change management, pamphlets, campaigns, and joint meetings are the way to go. Obama, Google and all the rest have instead opted to use an evidence-based approach to change behaviour, and when you’ve read I’m Afraid Debbie From Marketing Has Left for the Day, you can adopt this approach as well. In his book, Morten Münster has converted 40 years of research in human behaviour into an easily accessible method composed of four steps – a helping hand to all managers and employees who are thirsting for alternatives to conventional means.

12 Rules for Life

12 Rules for Life
Author: Jordan B. Peterson
Publsiher: Ballantine Books
Total Pages: 409
Release: 2018
ISBN 10: 0345816021
ISBN 13: 9780345816023
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


12 Rules for Life Book Review:

"What does everyone in the modern world need to know? [The author's] answer to this most difficult of questions uniquely combines the hard-won truths of ancient tradition with the stunning revelations of cutting-edge scientific research. [The author discusses] discussing discipline, freedom, adventure and responsibility, distilling the world's wisdom into 12 practical and profound rules for life"--

This One Looks Like a Boy

This One Looks Like a Boy
Author: Lorimer Shenher
Publsiher: Greystone Books Ltd
Total Pages: 304
Release: 2019-03-31
ISBN 10: 1771644494
ISBN 13: 9781771644495
Language: EN, FR, DE, ES & NL


This One Looks Like a Boy Book Review:

Inspiring and honest, this unique memoir of gender transition and coming-of-age proves it’s never too late to find your true identity. Since he was a small child, Lorimer Shenher knew something for certain: he was a boy. The problem was, he was growing up in a girl’s body. In this candid and thoughtful memoir, Shenher shares the story of his gender journey, from childhood gender dysphoria to teenage sexual experimentation to early-adult denial of his identity—and finally the acceptance that he is trans, culminating in gender reassignment surgery in his fifties. Along the way, he details his childhood in booming Calgary, his struggles with alcohol, and his eventual move to Vancouver, where he became the first detective assigned to the case of serial killer Robert Pickton (the subject of his critically acclaimed book That Lonely Section of Hell). With warmth and openness, This One Looks Like A Boy takes us through one of the most important decisions Shenher will ever make, as he comes into his own and finally discovers acceptance and relief.